Somatic sex education is a field of study and practice that focuses on the holistic understanding and exploration of human sexuality, embodiment, and pleasure. It combines principles from somatic psychology, bodywork, and sexology to provide individuals with experiential learning opportunities to enhance their sexual well-being.

The term “somatic” refers to the body and emphasizes the importance of incorporating the body’s wisdom, sensations, and experiences into understanding and transforming sexual patterns, challenges, and desires. Somatic sex education recognizes that sexual health and pleasure are not purely intellectual or theoretical but are deeply rooted in the body and its sensations.

Somatic sex education practitioners may work with individuals or groups to explore various aspects of sexuality, including arousal, pleasure, embodiment, consent, boundaries, communication, and personal growth. They may use techniques such as breathwork, movement, touch, and verbal dialogue to support clients in developing a deeper connection to their bodies and their unique sexual expression.

The goals of somatic sex education can vary depending on the individual’s needs and desires. Some common aims include:

  1. Enhancing body awareness: Somatic sex education helps individuals develop a greater awareness of their bodies, including sensations, emotions, and pleasure, fostering a deeper connection to their own sexuality.

  2. Healing trauma: Practitioners may assist individuals in healing past sexual trauma or addressing body-related issues that affect their sexual well-being, using somatic techniques to support the integration of traumatic experiences.

  3. Empowering sexual agency: Somatic sex education encourages individuals to explore and understand their desires, boundaries, and consent, empowering them to make informed choices about their sexual experiences.

  4. Expanding pleasure potential: Through somatic practices, individuals can discover new pathways to pleasure, expand their capacity for pleasure, and develop a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual life.

*It is important to note that somatic sex education is a professional field, and practitioners often have specific training and certifications. If you are interested in exploring somatic sex education, it is recommended to seek out qualified professionals who adhere to ethical guidelines and prioritize the well-being and consent of their clients.

Sexological bodywork is a somatic-based modality that combines bodywork techniques, somatic education, and coaching to support individuals in exploring and enhancing their sexuality, pleasure, and embodiment. It is a holistic approach that integrates the physical, emotional, and energetic aspects of human sexuality.

Sexological bodywork practitioners are trained professionals who work with clients to address a wide range of sexual concerns, challenges, or goals. Here are some key aspects of sexological bodywork:

  1. Hands-on Bodywork: Sexological bodywork involves the use of hands-on techniques to support clients in developing a deeper connection to their bodies, sensations, and pleasure. Practitioners may utilize various touch-based methods, such as massage, breathwork, genital mapping and de-armouring, scar tissue remediation, and pelvic release work, to facilitate the exploration and expansion of erotic potential.

  2. Embodiment and Body Awareness: Sexological bodywork emphasizes the cultivation of body awareness and embodiment as foundational to sexual well-being. Practitioners help clients develop a greater understanding of their bodies, sensations, and desires, enabling them to access and express their sexuality more authentically.

  3. Education and Coaching: Sexological bodywork practitioners provide education and coaching around sexual anatomy, physiology, arousal, communication, consent, and other relevant topics. They may offer guidance on exploring sexual fantasies, understanding sexual responses, or developing effective communication skills to support clients in their sexual journeys.

  4. Trauma-Informed Approach: Many sexological bodywork practitioners are trained in trauma-informed practices and work sensitively with individuals who have experienced sexual trauma or have specific trauma-related concerns. They create a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to process and integrate trauma, supporting their healing and reclaiming of their bodies and sexuality.

  5. Consent and Boundaries: Practitioners of sexological bodywork prioritize the importance of consent, boundaries, and clear communication within sessions. They help clients develop skills for asserting boundaries, navigating consent, and negotiating boundaries in their sexual interactions.

  6. Personal Growth and Empowerment: Sexological bodywork aims to empower individuals in their sexual journeys and personal growth. Practitioners support clients in discovering and embracing their unique desires, preferences, and boundaries, fostering a sense of agency and self-acceptance.

*It’s important to note that sexological bodywork sessions are typically conducted in a professional and ethical manner, with clear boundaries and a focus on client well-being and consent. Practitioners often have specialized training and certifications in sexological bodywork, adhering to ethical guidelines and ongoing professional development.

A session with me can vary depending on the specific goals or concerns of the client, and the agreed-upon focus of the session. Here are some general aspects of what will and may happen:

  1. Initial Assessment and Intake: The session always begins with an initial assessment and intake process. I will ask questions about your sexual history, concerns, goals, and any relevant physical or emotional factors. This helps me understand your unique situation and tailor the session to your needs.

  2. Discussion and Education: Somatic sex educators often provide information and education on relevant topics to enhance your understanding of sexuality, anatomy, arousal, or other aspects related to your concerns. I may discuss concepts, techniques, or approaches that can support your exploration or address specific challenges.

  3. Body Awareness and Sensation: I may guide you through exercises or practices to cultivate body awareness and deepen your connection to your sensations. This can involve breathwork, movement, or mindfulness techniques to help you become more present and attuned to your body’s responses and sensations.

  4. Experiential Practices: Depending on your goals and comfort level, I may introduce experiential practices during the session. These can include exercises to explore pleasure, touch, or embodiment, allowing you to connect with your body and explore new sensations or patterns of arousal.

  5. Communication and Boundaries: There will be a deep emphasis on the importance of clear communication and boundaries in sexual interactions. I will provide guidance on how to express your desires, set boundaries, and navigate consent within your personal relationships or sexual encounters.

  6. Emotional Support and Processing: If you have concerns related to past traumas, body image issues, or emotional blocks, I can provide a supportive space for you to process and explore these emotions. I may use somatic techniques, active listening, or therapeutic approaches to help you navigate and heal these areas of your sexuality.

  7. Homework and Integration: After a session, I may suggest homework or self-exploration practices to further integrate the session’s insights or continue the exploration of your sexuality. These assignments can be personalized to your needs and may involve journaling, self-pleasure exercises, or communication exercises with your partner(s), if applicable.

*It’s important to note that somatic sex educators prioritize your comfort, consent, and safety throughout the session. They maintain a professional and non-judgmental environment, allowing you to explore your sexuality at your own pace and within your personal boundaries.

Incorporating Reiki into a bodywork session can be a powerful tool to enhance the overall experience for the client. Reiki is a form of energy healing that promotes relaxation, stress reduction, and a sense of well-being.

During a bodywork session, while performing various techniques like massage or other forms of hands-on therapy, and with consent of the client, I may place hands on specific energy centers (chakras) or other areas of the body. These hand positions can be similar to those used in traditional Reiki sessions.

Throughout the session, I may feel drawn to a particular area, spend more time there, allowing the Reiki energy to flow where it is most needed.

Remember that incorporating Reiki into a bodywork session is a personal choice, and it’s essential to respect the client’s preferences and any contraindications they may have.